You Are Here to Remember
A song has been following me lately. Maybe you've had that happen, where a lyric finds its way into your heart and refuses to leave. For me, it's a line from Amen by David Onka: "…..one precious life."
Every time I hear it, I pause.
Because in a world that seems to glorify busyness, stress, sacrifice, and endless productivity, it's easy to forget just how precious this life really is. Many of us spend our days moving from one responsibility to the next, carrying the mental load of work, family, relationships, and everything in between. We become so focused on getting through the day that we forget to fully live it.
A few days ago, I was walking through the forest, noticing all the new growth that seemed to appear overnight. Tiny shoots were pushing through the soil, and buds that had looked dormant just weeks before were beginning to open. Nothing was rushing. Nothing was forcing its way into bloom. Each plant was simply responding to the season, unfolding exactly as it was meant to.
Standing there, I couldn't help but think about how different we are from the natural world around us.
Nature trusts its cycles. The forest doesn't apologize for needing a season of rest. The flowers don't compare themselves to the flowers next door. The trees don't worry that they're blooming too slowly. Yet so many of us move through life believing we should be doing more, achieving more, and becoming more.
We push through exhaustion. We ignore our need for rest. We carry burdens that were never meant to be carried alone. Somewhere along the way, many of us learned that our worth is tied to how much we accomplish rather than who we are.
But what if that's not why we're here?
What if we're not here to suffer?
What if we're here to remember?
To remember that beneath the stress, the expectations, the self-doubt, and the endless noise of everyday life, there is something within us that has never been broken. To remember that our worth isn't tied to our productivity. To remember that we are more than our accomplishments, our mistakes, or the roles we play for others.
And perhaps most importantly, to remember the light we came here to share.
I believe every person carries a unique light. Not a light that has to be earned, perfected, or created, but a light that already exists within them. Sometimes life simply layers so much on top of it that it becomes difficult to see.
This is one of the reasons I love breathwork so much. Breathwork doesn't ask us to become someone different. It invites us to slow down long enough to reconnect with who we already are. With each conscious breath, we step away from the noise and return to something deeper, steadier, and wiser. We remember.
As we move into this season of longer days, blooming gardens, and new beginnings, I invite you to consider what might be ready to bloom in your own life. What are you ready to release? Where could you offer yourself more grace? What would change if you truly believed that this life is precious?
Because it is. This beautiful, messy, imperfect life. Your life.
And if you've lost sight of your light lately, know that you're not alone. Sometimes we all need a reminder. Sometimes we need support. Sometimes we need someone to walk alongside us as we find our way back to ourselves. If you're feeling called to reconnect with who you are beneath the stress and overwhelm, I'd love to support you. Whether through breathwork, meditation, or simply a conversation about where you are and where you'd like to be, let's talk.
This June, don't ask yourself how much more you can carry. Ask yourself what wants to bloom.